Can we really be prepared for changes?  Life takes us through so many journeys and so many experiences.  Ususally things stay pretty stable for a little bit but then all of a sudden and without any warning everything changes on you.  I dont  believe I adapt well to change.   I like knowing whats happening, i like having a plan.  But when everthing changed, all the plans disappeared and they didnt really come back.  Its so different not to have a "plan".  but as it turns out i;m much happier this way.  Although life did a complete 360 on me, nothing but good things came out of it. I'm lucky I guess.  I'm not saying lifes perfect. There are still problems.  but I've just learned to appreciate everything more.  I have a good job, great friends, an amazing boyfriend. it goes to show that when life takes away, it also gives back.  Although i dont know what will happen in the future I feel ready for change.